Well, that’s good to know, since my son has been trying to break into the film industry for a few years, and I don’t have any connections. I’m sure he’d let Kate produce and direct my son’s next script.
Hollywood is almost psychotically convinced that this is true, even though 9/10 times a new star turns out to be someone’s kid. Even the old actors we love are mostly someone’s kid.
There is a known phenomena among the wealthy where they vastly over rate their classes accomplishments relative to others. So rich kid paints a picture and it should be in a gallery. Poor kid wins an art scholarship and it’s due to affirmative action.
True, and they don’t even understand how vital that art scholarship is. There was a recently noted phenomenon where all the big breakout British actors got the last two decades were pretty much all from wealth or from an acting dynasty (T Hidds and Benny C, not Benny W), because for the working and lower-middle class the cost of trying to get into the arts and failing is too damn high - what’re you going to live off for years while you try to get a role? The 80s and 90s seem like a golden age for non-silver-spoon actors by comparison, because of “affirmative action”.
For the slightest bit of defence: it makes sense. “Nepo baby” generally refers to some kid who doesn’t have the qualifications for their role but got it through their parents giving them an unfair chance.
But it makes perfect sense that if you grow up in a house with actors and writers for parents they can both teach you about the business, they’ll be happy to pay for that kind of education, and they’ll be super encouraging because unlike most families, to them becoming an actor or director is a perfectly reasonable goal.
It’s like a child of doctors growing up to become a doctor. On one hand their parents could have just pulled some strings, on the other hand, having parents excited to teach you organic chemistry and advanced math in middle school probably helps you a lot when it comes to qualifying for med school.
I don’t think all Hollywood nepo babies are like this. I’m just saying you would expect to see children of great actors become actors themselves.
While what you say is true to a degree the part you’re leaving out is that the kids who don’t have actor/musician/doctor/etc parents are still perfectly capable of learning these things.
They’re arguably better to bring into the various fields to challenge entrenched perspectives that get perpetuated by systems of momentum that you describe. In acting it’s what creates what led to metoo, in medicine it’s what creates wildly unfair work expectations and elitism, mainly because the old guard did it that way, and if you question the entrenched power “it’s because that’s the way we do things”. New blood is arguably more likely to push back against this because they aren’t as conditioned to play into the system from birth.
The other part that you leave out, as a result, is that these nepo kids then get an unfair advantage. Take kid A - a nepobaby like Kate winslets son, and kid B, just some kid who was obsessed with acting and writing. Let’s say your perspective is true and the nepobaby kid is obsessed with acting and writing in a wild environment of access to intense creative minds. But kid b is no slouch either, living and breathing acting and writing, constantly accessing whatever mentors they can, watching content online giving advice on process, and most importantly just constantly writing (or playing, acting, whatever) for years and years and years.
They’re both immensely talented individuals at this point. But what’s the difference? Kid A has connections capital to make films and eventually to production deals if they are any good. Kid B, at best, can scrape together a few grand to make a student film because they’re not affluent and their circle of peers is also broke. Even if they scrape together something noteworthy they have no connections whatsoever to industry.
In more extreme examples it’s a mediocre singer getting connected to hitmaker producers and media promotion while there are 10,000 excellent artists on Spotify with under 1,000 streams because they don’t have the capital to professionally record and promote their shit
Etc
I don’t think qualifications are relevant for nepotism to occur
Yes but the modern colloquialism of nepotism applies an undeserving attribute to the subject. At least, this is how I’ve noticed it used.
Edit: oops neoptism
But all of that training and extra support is exactly what that term is referring to. They wouldn’t have gotten that support unless they were born into it. The people aren’t as giving with their time to just any kid who wants to study their craft. Maybe some do. We need more of that.
It’s like a child of doctors growing up to become a doctor.
Except these aren’t remotely the same scenarios, because it simply doesn’t happen as often in any other industry. If anything, the 9/10 number is LOW for entertainment.
It’s a terrible comparison.
Nobody’s going to give the child of a talented surgeon the chance to do surgery on themselves.
But they might give the child of a talented actor a role in a film, this is a situation of connections not nurture.
Example: After Earth (2013)
I wonder what she thinks a “leg up” means.
never mind a leg up… kids in a fucking papoose at this point
Not super related but a friend of the family I’m visiting stopped by yesterday and was bragging about her son, who recently prompted an LLM to write a fantasy series “in the style of the Witcher”, did some loose editing, and published the books on amazon. She wrapped up with “He did some research and it isn’t even plagiarism!”
I tried to look occupied with something else, but she explicitly called out to me “What do you think?” It took everything I had not to lunch into an anti-AI rant starting with “Actually, his pollution of the literary space syphoning money away from real authors is plagiarism, and here’s why!”
“Maybe next he can try writting a book! :)” then stare into their soul
This is a perfect example of why AI will succeed no matter how mind-numbingly stupid it is: it will give people the warm and fuzzies without having to do jack shit. Yes, they “prompted” the LLM. Yes, they “edited” the output, and yes it was published on the biggest fucking commercial website to exist in the history of man. All of those “achievements” pale in comparison to writing an actual book with your own creativity and words and finesse. But since most people can’t expect themselves or their offspring to pull off such a difficult feat, this ‘second-place’ surrogate will do just fine and so we will all pay with what few resources we haven’t already annihilated in order to keep the gears grinding a little longer. 🙏
and yes it was published on the biggest fucking commercial website to exist in the history of man.
that doesn’t mean it will be bought and read, not in the large numbers, so hold your horses there.
and i have to say i find the story not very trustworthy. i can’t imagine that llm would generate such long text and it would make enough sense that editing it wouldn’t need more work than writing the text from scratch.
This generation of AI won’t “succeed”, I will be surprised if any current companies survive the eventual bubble pop. The LLMs will survive obviously as any other useful tech does.
With the amount they have been funded, borrowed and valued at they need to replace a mass of workers with “Agentic AI” to make the trillions of return they expect/need in like 4 years from now. LLMs doing this is a pipe dream, more GPUs won’t make an LLM sentient. And every other use case is a losing proposition for these companies.
I weep. It was excruciatingly hard already to find someone interested in your work to bring it to market, agents literally drown in awesome books they can’t publish profitably. A perfect example - A Confederacy Of Dunces - couldn’t find an agent/publisher until after the writer’s death, then immediately won a pulitzer. this was the late 60’s-70s iirc.
Now add the torrent of new writers with an interconnected world wide network.
Then add the tsunami of AI garbage.
We’re going to lose masterpieces because of that tsunami, and instead we’ll get AI garbage.
Not just in this field. Crap is drowning out real work in the sciences as well as arts. Both in terms of where funding goes as well as the output. It’s a cultural disaster.
scientific publishing was hurting bad (signal to noise and ethics issues) before AI… yeah, this is gonna be really bad.
Gross. I would be dissapointed if that was my son
Well you’d have to find something to be proud of, and if this is his greatest accomplishment then pickings must be slim indeed…
Sounds like two failed abortions in two generations.
It took everything I had not to lunch into an anti-AI rant
Why did you hold back? It would be a lot better to just be honest about it.
I don’t know this woman, but she’s close with people I care about and responding to her bragging about her son with “His actions are terrible and here’s why” would have stirred up drama. I’m not going to convince her that I’m right and her son is wrong in the five minutes we had together.
Just let it go and don’t even ask for the book title is probably enough between 2 old friends.
And one can be honest and tactful, which really is the best way to get people to think about things.
Absolutely! You don’t have to be an asshole just because you are being honest. How you say things matter a lot.
Plus it is not hard to get “published” on Amazon. Literally anyone can.
As someone saw the first 25 minutes of the film, I can say … I hate nepotism.
Thanks for answering the obvious question that popped into everyone’s mind.
I mean it’s true. She doesn’t like hearing it.
It’s like the old craft system. A cobblers son was most likely to be a cobbler because they grew up around the skills tools and equipment. If a parent has a high level of skill and resources it’s way easier to teach it to a kid for a kid and for them to succeed.
I mean I would loved to have a parent in a position to help fund and guide my first business venture like that kids has.
If I was successful, I would do that for my kids.
In her son’s case it’s going beyond that. She didn’t just encourage him to be an actor, use her connections to get him singing and acting lessons and get him in the door for auditions.
She herself got a movie made for him. You know she didn’t do rounds of interviews and decide at the end that her son was the best fit for the part. She set out to make a movie for him.
Would you then deny that your kid has a leg up on others if you did do all that?
I mean likely. I live in a better school district than most and have time to spend to help my kids with homework. I usually attribute all kid success to kid efforts. Don’t foresee myself as an adult going full narcissist and claiming credit,even partial, for the kid success.
It would be up to them to publicly acknowledge what they had other didn’t. Otherwise it’s kneecapping their achievements.
I can appreciate this perspective and I really respect you are being honest here.
I guess it can be helpful to remind ourselves and our family members to truly consider the advantages we have over others, and to remember that we could just as easily be in the shoes of any other person on earth.
If we experienced the same lives and had the same biology as anyone else, we would make the same decisions that they would.
It helps me to remember this, when someone elses’ behaviour bother me. I think to myself, “what kind of life would I have to have led for me to act that way?”, and give people the benefit of the doubt that people are trying their best.
Thanks. Realize the kind of answer I gave won’t win me ‘points’ .
realistically if I could do that for my kids I would. I think lots of wealthy families do, only when the opportunities are media facing does it get backlash.
There isn’t a social media page devoted to farm families passing down multimillion dollar businesses as a matter of fact.
There’s a difference between skills based on practice and exposure because of your prarents, and then merely fact that your parents are rich and famous. I don’t blame the kid for taking advantage of the opportunity they got, no worries there. At the same time, it’s not a level playing field, so we should not pretend it is.
Life isn’t even close to a level playing field. The family you are born into had the greatest effect on your future success than nearly any other factor.
My parents and grandparents taught me how to go bankrupt…
Step 1: Mortgage inherited assets to follow the latest fad.
Step 2: Make no profit but spend tons money.
Step 3: Accept government handouts right and left but still lose money.
Step 4: Go bankrupt and lose everything you inherited.
Step 5: Blame everyone else for your own stupidity. Extra emphasis on people with darker skin color.
Out of curiosity, what was the fad?
Hydroponic greenhouses in the late 1970’s for one bankruptcy. Off a deep well on a high mountain valley with water that came out of the ground at 6-8C… Oh and brutally cold winters down to -30C The heating cost alone for the water was prohibitive. They blamed the Mexicans for “tanking the market” for that bankruptcy.
On the other side, they always chased last year’s market. Sugarbeets were high so they doubled their acres - bank forced sale of 300 on that one. Beef was high so they bought steers ar extremely high prices and then sold them at a loss… bank forced the sale of another 400 acres plus they lost their grazing contract. The last one was lamas. Yep they bought 100 of them… Somehow it was the blacks fault for that one… never did quite figure out how. I currently guess the bank got a new loan manager who happened to have a darker skin color.
The last one was lamas.
I live in the Philadelphia metropolitan area and I do a lot of bicycling around the outskirts. It’s amazing how often I randomly bike past a llama farm. That shit can’t be profitable.
Reverse mortgage?
How many Netflix films have you made? Or are you just poor?
They said a show about poop knives won’t attract viewers. Soon will be my time to shine.
Oh they offered me, but you know I had to turn it down so that her dear son could have an equal chance at it.
I tried, but apparently it wasn’t “second screen” enough.
MVP comment right here. Netflix deliberately makes background noise instead of movies
Is he actually good or is he a special boy like Lance Stroll?
Reception Critical response On the review aggregator website Rotten Tomatoes, 67% of 76 critics’ reviews are positive. The website’s consensus reads: “A family affair both on screen and behind the camera, Kate Winslet’s directorial debut stacks the deck for tears a little too lopsidedly, but honest performances help put this drama’s heart firmly in the right place.”[11] Metacritic, which uses a weighted average, assigned the film a score of 55 out of 100, based on 25 critics, indicating “mixed or average” reviews.[12]
Peter Bradshaw of The Guardian wrote that Goodbye June is “a well-intentioned and starrily cast yuletide heartwarmer, like a two-hour John Lewis Christmas TV ad without the logo”, but criticised its “treacly soup of sentimentality” and “cartoony quasi-Richard Curtis characterisation” that feels unreal.[13]
Special like Lance Stroll, especially since it’s her directorial debut. More Ben Falcone than Francis Ford Coppola.
I don’t trust Rotten Tomatoes anymore; they’re a Fandango company, which is owned by NBC Universal and WB/Discovery.
You’re the ones giving them money!
I only fly my flag on open seas 🏴☠️aye aye
Yo ho yo ho a pirates life for me
How does this help the smaller actors, crews, effects people, etc?
Well, first we need to burn the corpos down to ash and rubble. Only then can I help anyone.
You can do both at the same time by buying indie films and music. Don’t forget Bandcamp and such 😁
In order to rise, something must first fall.
edit: jesus christ that was a ioke. I get that you guys are going through some shitty times now but do I have to add s/ everytime?
That’s some bullshit.
Don’t get me wrong, I support the collapse of corporate giants. They don’t deserve your money. But the small creators do.
What you’re saying is like saying “we can’t help these war torn villagers until the war is over”. The war will take years and the village children need to eat today. Its not a distraction, it’s the fucking point of the war.
Sounds like something Stephen miller would say honestly
Kate Winslet weirds me out when i read about her
Why, does she send you text messages like “I know you’re reading about me, I’m watching you through your bathroom exhaust duct”
Lol the actual reason is:
spoiler
- The way she talked about the Ammonite sex scene. Many articles on that & reddit discussions if you want to get a fuller picture, but the more you think about it the weirder it is. 1. Like why is she presuming that’s something the co-star, Saoirse Ronan, would want/need as a birthday present? 2. It seems infantilising 3. Other reasons…
- also it weems like something that should be kept private? Isn’t it the other actress’s place to tell people about that? I understand why requesting female only technicians for the scene was important though.
- There was another thing but I can’t find a source on it so she’s less weird in my eyes now that I’ve finished tne comment
The smell is the part that really puts me off.
When she’s hiding in my closet watching me sleep and masturbating it smells like a rotting can of surströmming ate hákarl and farted.
Celebrity is as celebrity does.
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At what point do we stop saying ‘nepo baby’ and start calling it a ‘dynasty’? Because let’s talk about a few.
Francis Ford Coppola is a great director. Sofia Coppola is gorgeous, a midrange actress, and a very good director. Nicholas Cage is a great actor, a great producer, and not half-bad at direction either. Sofia got her start because her father wanted to give her a shot in Godfather Part 3. Nick tried to distance himself (hence the name change).
George Clooney is a fine actor (I’d argue the worst live-action Batman but the best live-action Bruce Wayne). Would he have gotten his start if it wasn’t for Rosemary Clooney?
Would Mariska Hargitay have gotten the shot at SVU (one of the most-watched TV shows of the 21st century) if she wasn’t the daughter of Jayne Mansfield?
How about Sean Astin? Son of Patty Duke, and adopted by John Astin. Could you imagine a better Sam Gamgee, though? Is he a nepo baby?
That’s where I have issues. Talent can pass in families. Why should we be hateful toward it?
Nicholas Cage certainly got benefits from his family name. Helping him get in the door at interviews.
But he chose not to use his family name so the movie going public didn’t associate him with his Uncle.
And he started his career with small supporting parts before working his way up to leading man.
He didn’t have his famous mother write and direct a movie explicitly for him to star in.
I think a lot of people who trumpet the “but they’re so talented!” line, don’t realize just how much genuine talent is actually out there washing dishes in between doing plays in 300-seaters.
I think there is a point to be made here - talent is the easiest part of success. You can drop by bars in any major city and hear musicians who have the talent to be a top 40 star. What is difficult is to get your “break” and toehold in the industry. I think that’s what the core issue is. Their parents are right in that their kids have the talent to be mid-tier in the industry. What’s infuriating is that they are not more talented than anyone else. They have an escalator into the industry whe everyone else has to fight their way up the back stairs.
It didn’t mean these people aren’t talented. But getting into the entertainment industry is notoriously difficult. Having a name that opens doors will definitely make it easier.
Also having the financial support to attend every casting and networking opportunity. Not having to worry about food, clothes and housing now or in the future is a big advantage (related to nepotism).
Others have responded to you with part of what I wanted to bring up, but I also have another aspect to add to the rationale. These nepo babies aren’t just inheriting access and opportunities, but also a wealthy and comfortable upbringing. The child of a multimillionaire actor/musician/athlete not only has the inroads of their parents’ network and reputation, but also access to premium diets, exercise, doctors, schools, coaches, etc AND didn’t have to worry about getting a job at Chipotle or whatever while in high school or right after, and definitely didn’t have to balance that in order to help their family with bills.
It’s a lot easier to get into Hollywood when your parents are already famous, but that really only gets you the auditions. Being able to work on honing your craft for 40+ hours per week without becoming homeless, going hungry, or losing sleep is a motherfucking luxury. I rarely get to practice guitar anymore because my job is so taxing both mentally and physically, so I’ll probably never get better, so access to a producer still wouldn’t really help me to win out over a nepo baby. They could truly be the greatest of their generation because they were able to and encouraged to perfect their skills for their craft without having to spend their time on literally anything else.
A great example here is Taylor swift, one of the first billionare performers. Her parents were both insanely wealthy stockbrokers, who moved to Nashville from a 15 acre farm in Pennsylvania to support her music carrear. She started door knocking at 11 years old in Nashville until she got her first contract at 14. Her family could afford to uproot and move a 1000 miles to spend 3 years directly supporting their preteen daughter attempting to break into country music.
Taylor clearly has a lot of talent and is a hell of a performer, but even without all the direct contacts like a Winslet, intense wealth gives you amazing tools to win at life.
she got her first contract at 14
With a record company that her father invested in.
I don’t think we should shit on legitimately talented people because of their relationships with other talented people. Less talented people that only got chances because of their families? Well, we have a duty to make fun of them as much as possible. I also think that we need to acknowledge when talented people get roles in large part because of their families.
