First of all, rude.
Second of all, how dare you.
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Tinnitus gang where you at.
Mynoise.net is great.
I find it disturbing that people can’t seem to be in a room without a TV on, even if they’re scrolling on facebook. People probably think I avoid them when I’m really just avoiding TV.
Its infuriating to be visiting some family member, having a conversation with simeone, and have to talk over the noise of a TV that they have almost always on. I usually take the remote and at least lower the volume. But eventually someone comes into the room and goes “why is the tv so low?” and raises it again… Why?? We’re having a conversation, youre not even watching this shit… So frustrating
TVs make people feel less alone, its a coping mechanism.
I have had a fan running nearly constantly since middle school I am now 25. I fear the amount of cat hair glued to the blades, it’s one of those tower ones with the conical blades. I will not open it to clean the blades for fear that it’ll die.
Feels real is real!
I had a coworker who considered anything below 160BPM not as music. My flair of music is more like Jean-Michel Jarre’s Waiting for Custeau. And the apprentice thought that there was a reason for rap to exist.
What do you mean by that last sentence?
Kind of depends and changes depending on a lot of factors, to be honest.
When I worked in an office, I discovered that headphones + music was the key to productivity for me. When I transitioned to work at home and had a more or less quiet home office to work in, I found that having music going was a bit irritating at times and totally not helpful at the best.
So I guess the deciding factor is whether I have to deal with the ridiculous noises other people make or not?
I feel like if we continue down this particular meme street, at the end of the road everyone will be considered neurodivergent.
If everyone is neurodivergent then everyone is neurotypical.
This, tbh.
I think neurodiversity vs neurotypical is the wrong way of looking at things anyways. I think neurodiversity is a term that describes how diverse the different neurotypes are. Just as with other types of diversity, you can’t say there’s only one type that’s normal and the rest abnormal.
So we’re all just on the spectrum? 😉
“The spectrum” usually means ASD, but neurodiversity is much much larger and encompasses other neurotypes as well.
I know, twas joke
We did it reddit!
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But is everyone saying they must have background noise either 100% of the time or 0% of the time?
I think the meme was worded reasonably well. It could easily have said it in a more broadly relatable way like “I like to listen to music while I work” where many neurotypical people would agree. It’s like how people like to say they have OCD because they clean up after themselves and put things away.
I cannot concentrate with music playing.
Literally anything else? Like a truck crashing through the window or someone literally trying to engage me? Zero lost focus, to the extent I was initially diagnosed with a hearing disorder.
Not that that helps get stuff done…
I’m the opposite
Depends on the music for me. Anything slow or super lyrical tends to break my focus, while more upbeat stuff I’ve heard dozens of times can help me hit a flow state (or at the very least drown out the goings on around me enough to focus on something). I’ve had good luck with video game soundtracks, like Bastion or FTL because they tend to be lively without demanding attention.
Crickets are okay, but only when I feel like they’re okay.
Everyone around me finds crickets to be super soothing but all I hear is a very loud, high pitched ringing noise. 💀💀
I used to get really annoyed by noises that were out of my control, but after years of meditation practice, I learned to accept them (among other things) and am a much happier person. Just remember that these parts of you aren’t fixed and can change if you want them to, or sometimes totally unintentionally.
If you have the luxury of time to do so, I suppose.
30 minutes one day a week
That ten-thousand hours’ll be finished in no time!
The great part about meditation is you don’t have to be an expert to enjoy its benefits.
Yeah, just possess the ability to stop the multiple planets of worry hurtling through your brainspace. Easy peezy. 🤌🏼
You’re not in a space where you’re ready to try, and that’s ok. When I started, it was very difficult for me to tolerate trying, but in the end, all I ever did was what I was able to do with where I was at, 30 minutes once per week, and it made a huge difference for me. Let me know if you want any tips on how to approach meditation.
Patronizing is your reflex? That tracks. Good luck with that.
Are those traits neurodivergent or do they just fall into the “people are different” category?
- A fan in the background, cool
- TV in the background, cool
- Children playing in the background, cool
- Music in the background, cool
- a dripping water faucet in the background, drives me utterly insane
- Music on repeat, drives me insane
What if the background noise is in fact a series of overlapping, never-ending streams of thoughts in your own head?
I put on podcasts so my own thoughts shut up for a minute
It’s one of the reasons I’m listening to music so often, and even that doesn’t help sometimes. It affects my sleep too :(
I alternate back and forth all day long.
Where do I stand if, (regardless of my choice in the track or ability to affect said audio emenations) that background noise more or less just scene dressing for the “going insane” bit that’s rolling ahead with or without it?
I don’t know why, but someone speaking in the background in a language I don’t speak drives me insane. It doesn’t have to be loud, I don’t have to be trying to concentrate on anything especially hard, but if it doesn’t stop after a couple of minutes, I basically just have to go somewhere else.
No idea why. I don’t think it is any subtle racism, because it’s every language. It’s like my brain won’t let go of trying to understand, and keeps wanting to notify me that it’s having trouble and needs my help with it.
I get the weirdly opposite wherein my brain starts to try to translate it through whatever lexicon I may have, Korean for example don’t know a bit but any Romance language or Germanic language getting rammed through the lexiconic equivalent of Frankensteins monster as presented by HR Giger. I try to avoid Spanish, I can understand spoken Frisian.
You’d go apeshit in my house. My wife is constantly talking to her friends and family, or listening to the news, in Tagalog (Filipino).
Only thing that bothers me is that she can’t teach me, and she’s an educated teacher! I rock at languages, but she’s so critical I can’t get started.
Yeah, a lot of times becoming teacher/student with someone you already have a different standing with just doesn’t work out all that well. If it works then great, but if it doesn’t then t’s better to just have a different person teach you honestly.
Once I tried to teach my GF at the time something, started talking to her like one of my students, and she absolutely hated the process and rejected it completely. And lo, after talking with some other people because initially I couldn’t even tell what happened, I was enlightened.
A teacher can never really teach someone something. Only the student can learn and the teacher can encourage and help when they get stuck. I would learn how to read Tagalog first. It’s not too bad, Latin alphabet and all. Look words up at first, ask her once you get better. At that point your awful pronunciation when you ask about a word will compel her into helping you learn the rest. 3. profit
And you probably will have a conversation about why you want to learn Tagalog and if I were you I would focus on being able to communicate with her family and enjoy Filipino media with her. And not that you can’t understand her private conversations with her family / friends.
I’ve heard that we hate having to hear people talking on the phone because of how jarring it is to only hear half a conversation. It sounds like you’re experiencing something similar where you can’t quite make out what’s happening, and that keeps pulling it into the foreground of your attention.
That would make sense, your brain definitely is trying to make sense of it because syllables, sentences, vocal emotion, etc are all there, so there are certainly patterns that can be picked up on, but none of it matches the existing language centers you have.
As to why you might get more frustrated than others about it, who knows, brains are weird and I’m not a neuroscientist
Alternating languages kind of makes me insane. I have to try even harder to understand it, and often it can even take me a minute to figure out what the language is, even if it is my native language.
Minute isn’t exaggeration. Many times I’ve been listening to some “foreign language” for a while until it finally clicked, “Oh, that’s Slovak, my native language.”
If this is in movies I just prefer single-language subtitles.I would describe it as my brain having to switch languages on-demand rather than just catching on.
But for background this is fine. Today the Hungarian I was hearing from ceiling speakers at work didn’t bother me, just background noise, only when it didn’t make sense it clicked that it’s Slovak, again. Quite different even. But when I unfocused it sounded like the same speech junk.
