• Snot Flickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    5 hours ago

    I mean pretty easy for a pretty, skinny girl whose profile is nothing but thirst trap pics with a link to her onlyfans page to say.

    Not so easy for the unfortunate looking women who hit on me and I politely try to let them down as kindly as possible.

    There are extremely sadly ugly people out there of all genders. They didn’t ask to be born that way but it is not easy for them.

    • realitista@lemmus.org
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      4 hours ago

      Yeah I’ve rejected girls before. I haven’t felt good about it. As I got older I tried to oblige as much as possible even if I wasn’t that into it. But then you have to let them down afterwards too. But generally less painful I think that way.

      • sauerkrautsaul@lemmus.org
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        3 hours ago

        did you really just did type that fucking a girl who likes you for a while before you reject them makes it less painful for them? or did you mean just like chatting for a while

        • trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world
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          They were pretty vague about it, but I’d assume they’d just go on one or two dates instead of having sex.

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            49 minutes ago

            I have learned some people equate dates to sex. I’ve had to make it clear that unless the chemistry is way out of control and we can’t deny it in the moment, I don’t want to get into her pants right away as it will make the natural progression of a secure relationship more difficult.