• sauerkrautsaul@lemmus.org
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    5 hours ago

    did you really just did type that fucking a girl who likes you for a while before you reject them makes it less painful for them? or did you mean just like chatting for a while

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      4 hours ago

      They were pretty vague about it, but I’d assume they’d just go on one or two dates instead of having sex.

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        3 hours ago

        I have learned some people equate dates to sex. I’ve had to make it clear that unless the chemistry is way out of control and we can’t deny it in the moment, I don’t want to get into her pants right away as it will make the natural progression of a secure relationship more difficult.