• Glytch@lemmy.world
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    If you aren’t willing to engage with your partner about their weird little interests, don’t expect them to engage with you about yours. This goes for all genders.

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      Healthy relationships are about sharing all the odd things going in your head with someone receptive to and interested in those odd things.

      This is called knowing somebody and it really feels like it’s an utterly lost concept now. It’s no wonder people are abandoning relationships right now, people never talk about the rewards, only made-up problems and conflicts get circulated.

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    16 hours ago

    We just tell you some stupid shit to leave us alone, and you’re buying it.

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    Dude needs to finish off How it’s Made. They don’t show you how everything is made, but they cover so damn much that you can probably take a pretty decent stab at it.

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    Real 😂 Sometimes silence is just “brain buffering,” not a mood. Quick check-in + no assumptions saves everyone a lot of stress.

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    I stood in one place for 3 hours while they meditated and stopped thinking so the time would go by quickly until they were done and we could go for lunch. Not sure what they were trying to accomplish in that time.

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    Bicycle tires were invented by Dunlop and improved by Michelin.

    You know these names, because it actually wasn’t a dumb idea.

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    Normalize understanding that men and women aren’t very different in this regard. I once asked a girl what was going on in her head and she was thinking about stinkbugs, and if you could handle them carefully enough to not get stanked.

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      For anyone wondering:

      Take a paper towel, grip both ends, gently place paper towel over the stinkbug and close both ends keeping the length taut (not putting any pressure or touching where the stinkbug is, just letting the U-shaped fold in the center where you are not touching enclose the stinkbug). Gently twist to seal exits while not squeezing the stinkbug.

      You are now holding a paper towel with a non-activated stinkbug. Do what you will with that stinkbug.

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        I don’t understand how the paper towel completely encompasses the bug when bug’s little feet is on a solid surface. How does the paper towel get under his feet?

        And where did your “u-shaped fold” come from if we are holding the paper towel taut from both ends?

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          Put a paper towel flat on a table (long side left to right, if you have a half size towel). Take your pointer finger and thumb on each hand, and touch the left thumb to the bottom left corner of the towel, left pointer to the top left, and mirror on the right hand. Keeping the left-right length of towel taut, slowly pinch both hands. From the side view, the towel’s center will rise on the left-right axis (the U-shape). Finish pinching to complete the motion.

          The bug’s center of gravity is above the feet, so it turns out that as long as you keep the paper towel taut, the body is lifted and it quickly attaches its feet to the towel.

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        I’ve found killing them with fire is both effective and retributionally entertaining.

        But that was the '80s, when kids running around with the spray varathane and a zippo was kinda okay.

        I kinda hate stinkbugs.

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      It’s sad that I read this and the first thought was not about how similar we can be but more, “well…I suppose if you were gentle…”

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      I would have to leave out of fear… I don’t think I know how to take care of an amoeba, and the last thing I want to do is accidentally breathe you in or something 😔

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    I found out if I really focus on my breathing I can stop thinking for a short while and often practice that.

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      Because some women love calling men dumb or stupid online and then wonder why boys become incel/redpill men in the future.

      I’m not saying that many men online aren’t doing the same to women. I’m just tired, as a man, to go online and see memes diminishing men, and when I try to address it, nobody seems to care.

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        The same women that mock men for refusing to go to the doctor are the same women that mock men when they get sick.

        They start with a conclusion (“men bad!”) and back-solve.