• IninewCrow@lemmy.ca
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    19 hours ago

    This is the modern method of getting answers from people on the internet.

    If you want an answer to something, anything that you are thinking of … just confidently post the wrong answer somewhere and you will receive more than enough right answers from people who know.

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    11 hours ago

    Literally the only time people talk to me is when they want to ask how many sets I have left

    Most of the people in my gym are just average people though, not like a gold gym or anything.

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    19 hours ago

    It’s called Murphy’s Law. The best way to get an answer is not to ask the question but to say the wrong answer.

  • eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    17 hours ago

    I heard an interview with a former FBI counterintelligence officer who said the fastest way to get information out of someone is an incorrect presumptive statement.

    So “you seem like you were born in early March by your spirit shape” more often than you’d expect leads to “June 28th dumbass”.

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        15 hours ago

        It’s the day of Stonewall, so there are loads of pride marches, but also it was the last day of the first battle of Seoul in 1950 so the soul was slightly too early

  • Asidonhopo@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    A gym where people talk to you? No thanks. I’ve been going to my current gym, which is quite busy, for 6 years. Nobody has even made eye contact yet. Good times.

    Fyi if you’re anxious or shy or whatever the gym is the place for you, nobody will bother you at all, generally. Very easy to disappear in the crowd, even if you’re funny looking or something.

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      11 hours ago

      Maybe if you wear headphones(?) like most people, then you might not get bothered or whatever (so if you really don’t want to be talked to, wear headphones or go late?).

      Honestly though, it’s kinda nice when every now and then someone asks for a spot and you have a nice small interaction, but maybe that’s just me cuz it forces me to face my social fears.

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    19 hours ago

    Could probably also just ask one of those people for help in the future so you dont have to risk breaking something to get help lmao. Out of all the places I’ve heard this said the gym is the wildest to me because genuinely so many people there are willing to help someone who asks.

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      18 hours ago

      It’s a deceptively supportive environment, but it’s awesome when it happens. I remember helping a dude on bench and then he helped with my form on squats.

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    18 hours ago

    With the risk of injury this is stupid x 1000. Theres those who have had a serious injury training or spotting and those not yet there.

    I mean just use ai and double check w bodybuilding.com .