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    21 hours ago

    Not being an asshole. Like you don’t need to be nice, you don’t need to bend over backwards or go out of your way, just simply don’t be a jerk to people. It’s easy and free.

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      18 hours ago

      idk if i could say this is surprisingly easy or even really easy at all. this has actually been one of the most difficult things i’ve worked towards accomplishing during my life

      at least, this has been really difficult for me online; i think it’s much easier in person to not be a dick lol

      but if it’s hard for me online, maybe it’s hard for folks in-person, too

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    I’d always thought that making friends and talking to strangers was super hard. My whole life, I’ve struggled along with just a couple friends…

    Recently I’ve been reshaping my life and have been trying to make new friends… I’m still working on the execution, but just talking to people and finding common ground and being social has become SO much easier than I always thought it was. I think the trick was to just stop caring what people thought about me and being proud to be my genuine self.

    There’s a group I’ve been meeting up with regularly and we’re going to the zoo this Sunday, and bowling next Sunday, on top of our usually scheduled Thursday afternoon general social meetups :)

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    19 hours ago

    Growing summer squash. I bought one tiny plant and stuck it in the garden bed, then absolutely neglected it for weeks. And now I have more squash than I know what to do with!

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          I use it to backup my photos, music from my phone to my PC. Send music from the PC to the phone, nothing too crazy. What about you?

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            Is syncthing a backup solution? I think it is advised to not rely on it for backups because one deletion deletes it from everywhere.

            I don’t know what I can use it for. I have set it up on iPhone and desktop. I am wondering if I should use it for RPi with Tailscale. Still, the question remains on what to use it for?

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              23 hours ago

              There’s a setting for that but I’ve just got all one way folders right now, so in my music I’ll have a send and receive sub dir just in case. Same with the photos but I’m not really sending them to the phone.

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                Then it is fine, I guess.

                iOS does not support syncing in background with Syncthing (the only app I know of, and it is in TestFlight). I don’t know if I would be able to make any use of it.

  • 🇨🇦 tunetardis@piefed.ca
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    Making someone’s day. All it really takes is a small unexpected gesture. You pick up a little extra something for a coworker at the coffee shop. You let someone with small kids move ahead of you in the line.

    Heck, even asking a favour of someone can be all it takes sometimes. If they’re feeling ignored or in a funk for whatever reason, it brings them back and can be a little self esteem boost knowing they helped you out.

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    100 sit-ups, 100 push-ups, 100 squats, and a 6.2-mile (10-km) run, performed every day.

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      What’s so funny is I remember an old animation about Naruto fans saying they believed they could run at the speed of light if they did 500 pushups, 500 pull ups, 1000 jumping jacks, and 1000 leg kicks. I think it pre dated one punch man. But the joke was so similar. And I can’t find that video anymore. It was an ancient flash video.

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          I really don’t think it was. I remember this from middle school which was pre 2006 for me, or it have have been very very early high school. One Punch Man apparently debuted as a webcomic in 2009 according to Wikipedia.

          Edit: I think you may have misread me, I know the thing you mentioned is a One Punch Man reference. I mentioned it in my comment, you may not have seen it. I didn’t capitalize it so it doesn’t stick out very well.

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      I mean retaining the concept of a bunch of rectangular sheets of paper barely counts as mnemonism.

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        Come on, mate. It’s not just a bunch, it’s fifty-two fucking cards. Complete with its own arbitrary monarchal form of government. Who is the fucking Jack of England? Of Thailand? It’s got its own base-14 (seriously, fuckers?) numerical system where one isn’t one but some other fucking word that escapes me, and is higher than the rest of the fucking cards. And don’t get me started about the suits. I’ll grant you hearts, but why are clovers not green but black and called something else? Why are diamonds red? Rubies are right fucking there! And why are shovels called not called shovels? Call a spade a spade!

        It’s god damn near impossible.

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          I have been trained by Balatro for clubs to be blue and diamonds to be orange… Now looking at a normal deck of cards feels wrong.

          Also it’s a lot easier to remember a deck of cards in the late game when it’s only 28 cards and 23 of them are 3 of hearts with a couple rocks thrown in.