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LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneM to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 5 days ago

What phrase gets you through trying times?

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What phrase gets you through trying times?

LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneM to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 5 days ago
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  • foxglove (she/her)@lazysoci.alM
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    “fuck”

    • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      End of thread, we have a winner

      • foxglove (she/her)@lazysoci.alM
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        ha, I know it’s crude or the “wrong answer” - but it’s also what’s probably most true for me 😆

  • Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Oh I love that question!

    What if it all works out? ✨

    This one is so helpful for me, especially when things get really tough. Then it’s easy to see all the negatives, but this phrase shifts my perspective and lets me think of a more positive future 🌟

    • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      That’s a really nice one, it changes how you think which is great

    • sprite0@sh.itjust.works
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      i really like this!

  • Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    “Well, shit.”

    Alternately, Tolkien quote:

    “I wish it need not have happened in my time,” said Frodo.

    “So do I,” said Gandalf, “and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”

    • Fedi-bitch@piefed.blahaj.zone
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      Same honestly.

      Also, I loved the meme that went around when this gained popularity during covid where Gandalf’s reply was “LMAO well it has” 🤣

  • Lucy [she/faer]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Lemmy answers itself

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    • ZDL@lazysoci.al
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      Or, in its original formulation: “این نیز بگذرد” (īn nīz bogzarad).

      This is a very ancient piece of calming wisdom.

    • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      That’s an excellent meme

  • Okokimup@lemmy.world
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    Embrace the impermanence.

    Do I really want to add to the aggression in the world?

    Someday, [X] will happen for the last time.

    • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      They’re good! I really like the final one I’ll use that myself

  • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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    “Everything will be OK in the end. If it’s not ok, it’s not the end”. Yes I know this doesn’t make much sense when you think about it, but it works. Because it virtually always works out OK in the end.

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      omgg that’s the exact saying my mom always says and it’s so true! very cheesy but has really helped me when I’ve felt I’ve hit rock bottom!

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    OK, so now that I’ve had the chance to dig in my books, this one stands out from Zhuangzi:

    To a mind that is still, the entire universe surrenders.

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    They’ll be dead in the blink of a geological eye.

    • Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      But I blink a bit faster than that 😭

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    I quite like the one from the dysfunctional horse show: “It gets easier - but you gotta do it every day - that’s the hard part” :))

  • mauuumauukittycat@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    “Wanna be sexed up abusive lesbians” I love Class of ‘09 lol

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    People lived fulfilling lives during the fall of Rome.

  • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    These things happen.

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    The best you can do is the best you can do, and people ask for your input because they don’t know either.

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    It is what it is

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