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  • null@lemmy.nullspace.loltoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldSo proud!
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    25 minutes ago

    Asking someone for an example of a scenario is different from asking them whether they believe such a scenario exists.

    So, let’s try this again.

    Can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

    • assess an interaction she had with a man,
    • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
    • not be a sexist herself?

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    47 minutes ago

    You quoted me exclaiming that I got an answer to this question:

    Okay, so if the man is “probably” being misogynistic, that’s enough that a woman can believe they are being misogynistic without herself being a bigot/sexist/misandrist?

    Which is an different question than:

    Can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

    • assess an interaction she had with a man,
    • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
    • not be a sexist herself?



  • Ok so starting with the comment you linked: https://lemmy.world/comment/18496795

    That one and the next response we covered, and they are responses to questions, but don’t include the answer we’re looking for.

    Moving on to the next time I ask any questions is here: https://lemmy.nullspace.lol/comment/55968

    Your response was:

    Jesus Christ, you’re somehow losing the ability to follow a conversation.

    Why are you quoting yourself?

    It is sexist no matter the context, I’m not using it against anyone so I’m not a bigot I’m just exampling a bigoted word. You’re being obtuse. Is there a way to remove the intended insult from the hard r? No. Can you remove the intended insult from mansplaining? No. So both of those are always bigoted at times you might argue there’s some moral reason to do it but that’s all ex post facto.

    It’s sexist. If you need to see me as a bigot to get that across the so be it but you know as well as I do your argument is void of logic.

    Is that it? Because if so, that’s also not an answer to my question, which, again is:

    Can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

    • assess an interaction she had with a man,
    • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
    • not be a sexist herself?


  • Oh darn. Okay, is it this?

    I have. Many times, you refuse to accept the obvious and ignore everything I’ve said that doesn’t support your point. Why should I prove anything to you at this point, you don’t care about the point you care about winning which is why you insult me when you can’t think of an argument.

    You’re a bully, so why should anyone play with you let alone me?

    If so, there’s nothing in there that answers my question either.


  • Hmm, it can’t be that. The first 7 words of what you linked are:

    You doesn’t respond to a single one

    Which is definitely not an answer to the question:

    Can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

    • assess an interaction she had with a man,
    • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
    • not be a sexist herself?


  • Yeah we get it you have a reading comprehension issue, move on.

    Look who’s abandoning their argument in favor of an ad hominem. What a surprise.

    Let’s see if I can guess what you think you wrote that answers my question!

    Is it this?

    Nope not at all. I said it’s a bigoted word and if you use it as it’s intended you’re a bigot. This isn’t difficult.

    Because that does not answer my question.


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    6 hours ago

    It’s funny, every time you’ve accused me of not answering a question, I’ve provided screenshots and direct quotes. Pretty disingenuous of you not to do the same.

    I provided two separate answers that happen to be the same, just read the comment chain again

    I believe that you believe that’s true. But having read that thread, I see nothing resembling an answer to that question. And since you refuse to just quote it, I have to assume it’s just buried in your unreadable grammar and mess of typos.

    So let’s try this again:

    Can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

    • assess an interaction she had with a man,
    • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
    • not be a sexist herself?

  • Max comment depth reached.

    I’m just going to keep asking this question until you either quote your alleged answer, or give a new one:

    Can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

    • assess an interaction she had with a man,
    • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
    • not be a sexist herself?

  • Nowhere in that thread did you answer that question. Feel free to quote your answer and prove me wrong.

    Let’s try again:

    Can you give me a single example of a scenario where a woman could:

    • assess an interaction she had with a man,
    • deem his behaviour to be “misogynistic”,
    • not be a sexist herself?




  • That’s what I was referring to, clearly.

    So your response to “That’s not what I said” is “That’s exactly what you’re arguing?”

    Even though I explained it to you right after that line?

    I said your logic concludes that you are bigoted for using it.

    Weird.

    No it concedes that I’m using a bigoted word in a discussion about said bigoted word.

    Correct. And:

    When it’s a sexist term you’re going to be assigned to be sexist

    So, according to you:

    • The word is bigoted/sexist no matter the context
    • Using a bigoted/sexist term means you are going to be assigned to be sexist
    • You used a bigoted/sexist term

    Pretty simple stuff, guy. No one made you say these things. You can’t be mad at me because you painted yourself into a corner.

    Yeah except that’s me and we know I don’t mean it given the plethora of context

    Contradicts with:

    When it’s a sexist term you’re going to be assigned to be sexist

    Which is it?


  • “My argument is perfectly clear: it’s that your logic is flawed.”

    That’s exactly what you’re arguing.

    Yeah no shit, that’s why I said it…

    No it concedes that I’m using a bigoted word

    Correct, which, by your logic, makes you a sexist:

    When it’s a sexist term you’re going to be assigned to be sexist just like I’m not stopping to ask the person dropping hard r’s if they think they’re racist



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    10 hours ago

    I’m not saying it isn’t bigoted.

    That’s not what I said. Read more carefully.

    I said your logic concludes that you are bigoted for using it.

    How can we discuss this subject without me necessarily use it.

    You probably can’t, which really puts you in a corner, logically.

    Using a word as an example isn’t the same as using it in it’s intended context.

    You previously stated that it is sexist in any context. So that’s irrelevant.

    You didn’t make an argument you made an insult that didn’t even particularly make sense but it’s intent was clear.

    My argument is perfectly clear: it’s that your logic is flawed.

    That’s ad hominem

    Again, no it’s not. An ad hominem is when you use a character attack to discredit an argument. That’s not what I’m doing.

    No I lost

    Lol