Thank you <3. Being called sister just made me feel very nice inside. I am very lucky in having some amazing friends and a supportive partner, but I have been scared to reach out to irl groups because I’ve really internalised the idea that those spaces aren’t for me. I have some really dear close trans friends that have been hugely supportive but they live in other countries and we see eachother only maybe once per year.
I’ve recently been at some IRL events where I’ve introduced myself to new people (isn’t it so nice to do that with a new person and they dont have to re-adjust any pre-conceived opinion about you and they just go “Hi Domi, nice to meet you” and it’s no big deal? :)).
I am learning that a lot of those imposter fears that have held me back are not reflected when I actually do talk to people in trans spaces IRL. Even though I’m not yet very femme-presenting, everybody so far has made me feel welcome and valid. The same way you have here.
Thankyou for sharing your wisdoms with me. O Captain! My Captain! 🫡. I really do appreciate your thoughts and perspective.