• Delphia@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Malicious compliance story.

    Friend of mine was paying child support for his kids, his ex wife was claiming no income as she had to look after the kids which he knew was bullshit and she was working in the new boyfriends restaraunt but claimed that she was just "helping out when she could. That stopped for a year when her and her new boyfriend wanted to buy a house, so he gave her a very nicely paid job working at his restaraunt as a “manager”. They found and bought a house and immediately she was “fired” and went back to seeking child support.

    So he sued to have the child support lowered as she can clearly work when it suits her goals and she fought it kicking and fucking screaming, tried taking away his access to the kids and generally making his life hell. So he went to the tax office with a hot tip “I’m willing to bet that between (insert dates here) this restaraunt somehow took in exactly (insert what ex-wife made + taxes) more than they normally do per year. Id be willing to bet it was their best year ever and I guarantee you will find some very cooked books”

    Turns out its really easy to get custody when your ex-wife is being charged with fraud and tax evasion.

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      From my understanding, I believe it does, in that if your income decreased, your alimony can be reduced.

      Of course, this is almost certainly a work of fiction.

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        Sure, but once your income goes back up so does the alimony, at least in the US

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          Wasn’t there a comedian/actor who was/is living in Canada to avoid maintenance payments he couldn’t possibly make, as the calculation was done with he had just received about three years income in a single cheque, and he doesn’t actually make 3 years income each month

          I wouldn’t be surprised, based on that, if what matters is income on the day of the court order

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            Dave Foley

            Foley married Canadian writer Tabatha Southey on December 31, 1991.[14] They divorced in 1997.[14] The couple has two children.[14] In 2001, an interim child support agreement obligated Foley to pay Southey $10,700 a month, a figure based on his income when NewsRadio was in production. By 2011, Foley claimed that his earnings had declined to the point that the $10,700 sum constituted “literally 400 percent of [his] income” but he was unable to get the obligation reduced in court

            https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dave_Foley

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        Not necessarily. I recall a court case where an ex-husband tried to reduce alimony payments by quitting a well-paying job in tech to work at a fast food restaurant, got sued by the wife, and was ordered by the judge to continue paying the previous amount because he was clearly qualified and able to retain the job and had created the situation on purpose.

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            He’ll still be paying it even if fired. He would need to seek out a job that is at a similar level and would get the alimony adjusted if it pays a little more. But you can’t suddenly decide to quit a field you are qualified for, have plenty of opportunities to work in etc, to chase a fast food career. Even if you get fired and do that, the judge will see it as malicious - you wouldn’t do that if you had a family to support.

            Also, if you prove you cannot find a job and are looking, they’ll adjust it too, and will let you find a shittier job in the meantime. It’s just if you do it all maliciously where they will say “nope”

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    4 months ago

    We are aware that the original post is a joke, right? “Safe space for billionaires”?! Though I think the reposter at the top might not have clued in.

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    Now the wife has every reason to to seek back pay & take more. She can just tell the judge, what else was he lying about?