• The Quuuuuill@slrpnk.net
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    1 month ago

    your admins also run lemmygrad. only you can decide if you should leave. personally, i like beehaw, slrpnk, dbzero, and blahaj. one important aspect to understand about the fediverse is that your instance is part of the identity you present to others

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      30 days ago

      It has nothing to do with your identity. They all have different rules and different communities. Its more like which hotel chain you prefer to stay at. Its a preference for sure, but one that doesnt matter much.

      People who judge based on instance are only outing themselves anyways. Churlish.

      • The Quuuuuill@slrpnk.net
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        30 days ago

        it does say something though about what style of moderation you prefer and who you associate yourself with. that’s why it’s literally part of the identity you present. it’s embedded in your username. it’s like your fediverse last name.

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          30 days ago

          Sort of, at best it means that instance hasnt banned that person, yet.

          You could argue it means something more than nothing, I’d argue its not enough to matter.

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            30 days ago

            People really want to be allowed to be bigots and currently Communism is “safe” to hate, so they let a few interactions color their opinion of an entire, loosely-affiliated group.

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              30 days ago

              There does seem to be a lot of regional competition I’ll call it, between posters. Some really get a kick out of figuring out which country someone is from so they can quickly throw out their argument.

              Kind of a wild place. Still lots of different perspectives abound, if you cast a wide enough net.

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          30 days ago

          I’ve been on Lemmy for a year and only now I’m learning about instances. I’ve read a few threads about lemmy.ml being “tankies” and that hexbear is the worst, but haven’t had any negative interactions with either. Shit, I don’t know the majority of the time which instance I’m interacting with.