• bl_r@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    9 months ago

    I skimmed the article and noticed that women are more likely to identify as LGBTQ+, and I wonder if that’s related to the fact that more and more men are becoming conservative, and women are becoming more liberal.

    I know I wouldn’t have thought about queerness and my identity if I was conservative, I probably would have thought something silly like “Oh, it’s perfectly normal to be romantically attracted to some men, you eventually grow out of it” instead of asking myself “Am I bi?”

    I probably would have also associated my discomfort with my own masculinity with something weird, or over-compensated to account for it.

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      9 months ago

      Nah, it’s just women are more likely to admit same sex attraction even if it’s occasional.

      For men regardless of political orientation, most men wouldn’t act on it, and if they do they keep it a secret.

      Women get less judgement for it.

      So it makes sense men would be underrepresented in surveys.

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        9 months ago

        I think it has to do with judgement mostly. I bet all those “straight” guys I’ve met off Grindr don’t identify as LGBT, even though they… did gay things.

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            9 months ago

            not gay if you’re just pitching

            Wow they really did retvrn to tradition - this is how the Romans approached it too!

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        9 months ago

        You see it in professional sport. Lots of openly lesbian women in pro soccer teams. Only one or two notably out of the closet gay active pro soccer players in the world.

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          9 months ago

          I think that’s a selection, bias, though. I’d bet more gay women tend to play sports like soccer or softball than gay men go to play football or baseball.

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      9 months ago

      “Oh, it’s perfectly normal to be romantically attracted to some men, you eventually grow out of it”

      Why do you think so many conservatives believe it’s a choice? They think that everyone has to repress it like they do.