My social media algorithms show me so many cool cosplayers, tomboys, pretty girls in a variety of nice clothes, alt girls, fairies with elf ears but never any attractive men doing anything cool or stylish or interesting that it just feels so lame being a guy.

I never see any attractive men (im bi) with interesting style or clothes or looking attractive in cosplay or being artistic and hot. Are dudes just so boring with their looks or is my algorithm just too skewed towards women?

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    8 months ago

    because everyone regardless of gender and age are biologically conditioned to look at them.

    Sorry but this is bullshit. Images of women dominate social media because men with power (and money) tend to like looking at them. I may not be socially conditioned to treat men as objects but the lack of choice this society affords me does not somehow mean I have the same visual preferences as the men who dictate my world.

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      No, it’s not (just) because horny old rich men like watching it.

      Images of beautiful women dominate social media because it works in marketing. They wouldn’t do it if it didn’t work.

      It’s not at all about what you prefer watching. Preferably you’d want to avoid watching marketing all together. No, it’s about what makes you buy stuff.

      Most marketing is directed at women (even for men products) because the purchase decisions are mostly done by women in the moment of sales. Using beautiful women in marketing simply sells better.

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        Now you’re mixing up “what marketers think works” with the much broader category of “images on social media”.

        What marketing departments dominated by men think works is not the same thing as what actually works is not the same thing as what gets put on social media.

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          What marketing departments dominated by men think works is not the same thing as what actually works

          In this case, isn’t it because the market evolved faster than they could keep up with? Probably there was a time where most of their customers were “macho men”, so these adds would work in marketing.

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            That is the assumption. But that does not mean it is true.

            I posted an example of the tyre company before. The other example I can’t find is the blog by a guy who rented two stalls at either end of the same conference, staffed one with models and the other with local grandmothers. The grandmothers did much more business. It’s the salesmen who want the stall staffed with models, not the customers.

            The evidence-base of sales & marketing is dismal to non-existent.

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      Images of women dominate social media because men with power (and money) tend to like looking at them

      Lol you think all the horny 20 something dudes salivating over Instagram hotties have power and money?

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        Clicks are money. The people making the decisions are not the people they’re trying to make money off. HTH

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          I’m sorry, you’re confused about this. People with money are not driving the behavior of the hottie enjoyers. It’s the reverse. Joe Everyman is willing to give his attention to hot women, and Instagram is profiting off that.