• jordanlund@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      Forget socializing… it’s all “hey, can you join a meeting?” that has absolutely fuck all to do with you. Slack invites? Ignore. Outlook calendar items? Delete. Much harder to dodge in person.

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        I feel like it’s worse virtually.

        Saying “Sorry, can’t walk and chat with you, have to catch up on shit” in person vs

        Hearing “saw you were free at 430pm, so I threw a zoom on there. Oh? Well you should block out you’re picking up your kid” remote

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          This. And those 5 minute walk and chats, although annoying at times (also they could be fun and productive at times), were less painful than the endless meeting invites I get now. Because a 5 minute walk and chat folks know you are busy. If they see you at your desk plugging away they no you’re busy. But for some reason people now think they are entitled to unscheduled time on your calendar.

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              Because I need to accept some meetings, but not any meeting. But the difference is the volume of meeting invites coming in. And folks expecting me to show up even when I didn’t respond yes.

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          9 months ago

          You have no choice but to work for these companies? Lol.

          How does anyone survive without working for them?

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            9 months ago

            People get tied into locations because of family and mortgages, it’s reductive to say what you did.

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              So there’s no way for those people to leave?

              Doing so would mean death?

              Or do you think the only viable solutions are easy ones?

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                I am not in that situation, but it would be great to not live in Indiana.

                It would also be great if my mother wasn’t in her 80s and my wife’s mother wasn’t in her 70s and didn’t need our help for things.

                But they do and we wouldn’t abandon them.

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            They do have a choice.

            I am a software developer and I would never work for say a gambling company. I’m not skilled enough for a FAANG company but I wouldn’t do it even if I was.

            If you can get a job at a FAANG the you can get a job anywhere. Certainly for less money but money is meaningless after a point.