What the fuck is this. Is this a threat?
Seriously, does ICE just shows up and is my entire family gonna bandwagon and blame me for it?
Like sure, whatever, go call them mom, they’ll shoot all of us.
What the fuck is this. Is this a threat?
Seriously, does ICE just shows up and is my entire family gonna bandwagon and blame me for it?
Like sure, whatever, go call them mom, they’ll shoot all of us.
She’s blaming you for her own conduct, which is toxic. You do not control her emotions.
Yeah, my thought upon reading OPs post was that stereotypical wife beater excuse; “I love you, but sometimes you’re making me so angry…”
Nobody is responsible for their emotions. But everyone is responsible for how they react to them and/or act them out.
I think that’s a potential. It’s worth noting that in many instances, neither party is innocent.
Reflecting on my own actions, I would need to be a saint to keep my cool 100% of the time. My bursts are typically when I have said something many times and either it doesn’t get done or something happens when it’s not supposed to. But that’s not to say that I freak out every time. Just talking about when I do.
If you’re blaming others for your negativity via voice or action then you are abusing them.
It’s not blaming, it’s human reaction. We have emotions and react accordingly.
You’re a controlling git who sees other people as NPCs to demand what you want of and you blame your victims for their victimisation.
People who live with you will be so relieved when they don’t have to any more.
If you give up control, you might gain love, but I’m not convinced you have any idea whatsoever what that really is or what it looks like.
Good assumption off of a few lines but nah. I’m just human and imperfect. I’ve lived a good life and learned many things.
If I was as bad as you think I was, my kids would not be as capable as they are and would have left already instead of opting to watch movies, talk, and stay living at home as old as they are.