It always starts with a woman complaining things aren’t always how she wants. There isn’t any better example of a gendered thing than when one genser seems to always be the one doing it.
This argument requires you to presume that a certain position is already right, and then commands you to conform to that position. It isn’t an argument, it’s an imposition.
I don’t care whether YOU conform to it, in the same way I don’t care if YOU return shopping carts, or if YOU tip your waitstaff. I don’t have the energy to enforce that everyone do everything right. But someone in your life wishes you would.
This is not a gender thing.
It damn well shouldn’t be. But there are dudes who won’t even wipe they own ass cause they’re afraid to catch the gay.
Edit: I really didn’t expect non ass wipers to be on lemmy. But I’m glad I upset at least 4 of you idiots.
Edit 2: hey I’m positive again! For anyone curious, I made the first edit when this comment was at -3.
Literally everybody is missing the point that’s it’s a sex problem, not gender. So many whooshes in here.
And it shouldn’t be a gender or sex issue. I’m a cis-het dude, and I put it down all the time cause I don’t want the water spraying out when I flush.
Sure. But I was directly replying to OP originally, and the way it was phrased.
Or course it is, not exclusively, but largely and often.
You’re missing the point. It’s a back and forth between sexes, not a gender thing.
It always starts with a woman complaining things aren’t always how she wants. There isn’t any better example of a gendered thing than when one genser seems to always be the one doing it.
You’re right. It’s a “people who listen” vs “people who don’t listen” thing.
It just so happens that on average, women are much better at listening than men.
This argument requires you to presume that a certain position is already right, and then commands you to conform to that position. It isn’t an argument, it’s an imposition.
Putting the lid down is right.
I don’t care whether YOU conform to it, in the same way I don’t care if YOU return shopping carts, or if YOU tip your waitstaff. I don’t have the energy to enforce that everyone do everything right. But someone in your life wishes you would.
And they won’t shut up about it⸮