SA mention
Back when I was 11, I was experimenting with gender and my 10-year-old girlfriend had learned about rape. Though I don’t put a lot of blame on her due to her age, she responded with “Ew, you don’t want to be raped that badly that you want to turn into a guy?”
I can get my thoughts out better in text, so back in june, I wrote a fucking novel for my family and my mom and siblings were super supportive, but my dad responded to my message I had spent 2 evenings writing editing and rewriting, then several more days agonizing about hitting send with “someone get a hold of your phone?” He has yet you use the proper pronouns or say my chosen name in my presence, and the only reaction that wasn’t a nonreaction I have gotten from him when I correct him was a dissmisive grunt. I have distanced myself from him, and when he asked about christmas plans, I finally laid into him and now he’s complaining I never came to talk to him about it, like he’s the victim. Did the same thing when my (cis)sister went no contact to protect her kids because he’s a narcissist dickwad.
I’m sorry he’s acting like that 😞 can’t stand when people feel like they can just ignore it and make it go away, and keep making you feel like it’s your fault when you raise the issue