This is just further infantilising men who refuse to grow the fuck up I’ve tried that and it didn’t work instead of babying them and begging them not to join the far right you should be asking these men the hard questions like “why do you want a girlfriend?”, “how does having a girlfriend help you?”, “what if women just don’t want to date you because they don’t find you attractive and you should find other ways to find companionship”.
Who said anything about “begging men not to join the far right” as the solution? Edit: Like I would actually agree that asking people questions that challenge their assumptions is a generally good approach to at least starting them on the path to considering something different. So I’m not sure what this has to do with what I said, that you are saying it’s “infantilising.”
This is just further infantilising men who refuse to grow the fuck up I’ve tried that and it didn’t work instead of babying them and begging them not to join the far right you should be asking these men the hard questions like “why do you want a girlfriend?”, “how does having a girlfriend help you?”, “what if women just don’t want to date you because they don’t find you attractive and you should find other ways to find companionship”.
Who said anything about “begging men not to join the far right” as the solution? Edit: Like I would actually agree that asking people questions that challenge their assumptions is a generally good approach to at least starting them on the path to considering something different. So I’m not sure what this has to do with what I said, that you are saying it’s “infantilising.”