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    “Pride should be reserved for something you achieve or obtain on your own, not something that happens by accident of birth.” - George Carlin

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        8 hours ago

        Hey man I still have to maintain the heart that keeps that thing full of blood during strenuous aerobic exercise.

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        Yeah no pride is about SURVIVING while being queer. Thats what they should be and are proud about.

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        Pride for being LGBT isn’t about being proud for being LGBT. It’s about being proud of being yourself despite living in a society that usually tells them not to, or even persecutes them for being themselves. That is an action, an act of rebellion and truth in the face of adversity. That is what they’re proud of.

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        Maybe one day, but one could argue that it takes active effort to be openly LGBT+ because of the potential harassment or worse

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          This. Even coming out when people are supportive is rough to say nothing of a huge portion of the world hating you for no reason.

          Also, pride is more about visibility than actual pride. About showing each other that we aren’t alone and that it’s ok to be open.

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              Oh, I specifically mentioned it because lots of people seem to think you can and should be proud to be LGBT+, eg ‘pride’ month and everything

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                Lots of people think they should be proud to be white - so much so that we have the very post under which we are discussing this topic where someone is falsely claiming to be such. THAT would have made far more sense to use. It seems to me that you’re telling yourself that you’re making a valid point, but instead you’re merely revealing your own bias.

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                  You’re getting me wrong - I don’t think anyone should be proud to be anything they didn’t put effort into. All I want is consistency.

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                    Yet you specifically went after a particular group that’s consistently marginalized. I might have believed what you’re claiming had you mentioned multiple examples, but you didn’t.

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          It doesn’t take work to be LGBT+, that’s something you’re born as. You could definitely argue that for many people in our current society it takes sacrifice to be openly LGBT+ though

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            It certainly does take work to be gay when it’s societally unacceptable. Either you do work to hide it, or you do work to convince yourself that you’re not.

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              You’re right. In this society it takes work to be LGBT+. And if you do something based on that, it also takes effort, which can make you proud. But it’s still not a choice to be LGBT+, and in other societies it would not be anything to be proud of, just as you shouldn’t be proud to be white, or straight.