It happens sometimes. When’s it happened to you?

  • sparkles@piefed.zip
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    2 days ago

    My ex-husband cheated on me for about 3 years. I noticed I was starting to get a lot of ads for dating sites at home, which was my first flag.

    We went rock climbing at his workplace and his female coworker didn’t recognize me/know of me and was all over him.

    Was in bed and saw bumble on his phone reflected off his glasses onto my phone screen when I stopped playing a game.

    He was, in general, an atrocious person. But being alone was a terrifying prospect at the time so I let it go on for longer than I should have. In the end it wasn’t the even cheating that caused me to leave.

    • The_Grim_Dreamer@lemmy.world
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      15 hours ago

      Jeez that really is terrible. What a horrible mindset to have I actually feel sorry for him that he’s that lacking in contentment and peace deep down that he’d be doing things like that. And of course, double that sympathy for you for having to live through that. Hope freedom feels incredible for you now ✨