• Mycatiskai@lemmy.ca
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    7 days ago

    The men that are out there for women are feminists that do equal work outside of the home and inside the home.

    I do the cooking and some cleaning, my partner does some cleaning and the dishes, we both do yardwork.

    Women don’t have to rely on a man to be subservient to or man be master to a woman, they can be equals together with deferral to the person who is better at a task (not because of gender roles but because of proficiency or enjoyment)

    My grandmother didn’t have a choice, she got married and had kids, she was told she would die if she got pregnant again and never had sex again because my grandfather was a Catholic and wouldn’t have sex if there wasn’t a chance of a child.

    Partners don’t need to accept that kind of trash choices anymore, feminism didn’t wipe out good men, it wiped out womens need to take the bad choice and choose nothing instead.