a mixed bag, tbh - I struggle with low self esteem and engage in a lot of negative self-talk; I can struggle to take care of myself and that can cause distress to people who care about me; I can be unreliable or have trouble structuring myself; but I’m extremely loyal and dedicated, and I am attentive and happy to listen and also to be a “thought-partner”. I’m also considered a good cook, and happy to do all the cooking. I’m dedicated to egalitarian labor divisions, so I try to pull my weight and always looking for ways to make my partner’s life easier or to share in their burden.

I guess I have little sense of whether I’m a good partner or not, but my partner insists they like me, lol