• oftenawake@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    17 hours ago

    Can we choose to stop having teenage girl manga leg fetish memes associated with Linux? That’s my choice because it’s not the 90s any more and I’m a middle-aged beardy father of three daughters. This meme is totally seedy and doesn’t do any favours for Linux or Open Source.

    It’s not particularly funny and we can come up with far better memes without making it seem (yet again) like Linux might be mostly for creepy basement-dwelling nerds who haven’t met many real women and who aren’t creating a welcoming community which truly views women as something more than sex objects.

    It’s dinosaur-era shit, guys. Please make better memes!

    • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      4 hours ago

      I think the socks thing is more of a reference to trans people (or femboys or however they liked to be called) who like linux

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      15 hours ago

      I have the opposite reaction when I see these memes. To me it’s a reminder of how inclusive some of my favorite nerdy communities are, on top of being a fun little in-joke like any meme should be. And I’m an old beardy middle aged dad too for whatever that’s worth.

      However, that doesn’t mean the image itself is innocent or appropriate for most audiences. I’m not going to be asking the family’s opinion on this one, lol. But I don’t see it as a manga fetish thing at all. More empowerment than exploitation for the owners of the legs shown.

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        11 hours ago

        I had the same thought and am fairly confused by the outrage.

        Isn’t the whole joke that as soon as we sit down to nerd out on Linux that we put on our frilly socks? There’s even the whole unixsocks comm dedicated to it. And it always felt good in a throwback to the 90s ‘outcast geek’ community without all the cis dude-by-default baggage bit of in-joking. Welcoming all our brothers and sisters by highlighting just how much they are part of our community.

        What does OP think the image suggests I wonder?

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              oh its a shame you deleted this that person is a fkn loser and deserves to be called out for being a bigotted freak. they posted like 4 comments under this one thread looking at their account its wild

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                6 hours ago

                You’re completely right, and my opinion hasn’t changed they are an awful transphobic person that posted heinous transphobic bullshit.

                Since a moderator thankfully deleted the comments already I didn’t want to make anybody have to read their contents again, was my thinking.

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      16 hours ago

      I like the way this comment assumes the unix socks meme is perpetuated by horny neckbeards, not horny transwomen.

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      12 hours ago

      Men like women bodies. Thats why you are here on this planet. Your dad got attracted to your mom, probably because of her body.

      I really think you have lost your mojo if you are offended by this.