Height, as long as not much shorter than me, it doesn’t matter.
And I’m saying for other women, they don’t even care if they’re taller, especially if it’s just when they’re in heels. Even more so when you get to ridiculously attractive women who have already been able to be very selective on just physical traits.
Same way a man that can walk into any room and get the attention of the most beautiful woman, eventually has the novelty of physical beauty wear off compared to someone who’s never experienced a partner like that
It’s a human thing, there’s not really a gender difference. When you can always “get” the most physically attractive person, you start valuing other charecteristics more when looking for a longterm partner.
It starts out looking for a physically attractive person who also has those other qualities, but as you value those more, you relax the other standards without even knowing you’re doing it.
That makes sense. I figured on height I just couldn’t really ever be selective, I’m around the average height of men in my country, and tall guys seem to favor short women, and short guys usually seem to want women shorter than them, so have just always ended up with guys around my height with a couple of outliers (two legit short guys, two really tall). So as I am used to being around guys my height that is what my mind perceives as the space to find attractive guys.
Really haven’t ever pursued a guy for his looks and don’t think I personally am in the turning heads level of attractive, wasn’t ever mainstream majority attractive anyway, though averagely good looking.
tall guys seem to favor short women, and short guys usually seem to want women shorter than them,
That’s a misunderstanding that everyone keeps assuming. But because it’s so prevalent, people keep making the assumption about others.
If you’re into a short guy, don’t just assume he’s not into you just because you’re taller. He might be into you but assume you’re not into him for the same reason.
Be into whoever you’re into, just don’t press it if they’re not interested.
That kind of circles back to what I said about especially attractive people caring less about looks. They have the confidence to not give a fuck and just shoot their shot without ruling themselves out first.
Most people’s problem is just their own fear of rejection, doesn’t matter what gender.
And I’m saying for other women, they don’t even care if they’re taller, especially if it’s just when they’re in heels. Even more so when you get to ridiculously attractive women who have already been able to be very selective on just physical traits.
Same way a man that can walk into any room and get the attention of the most beautiful woman, eventually has the novelty of physical beauty wear off compared to someone who’s never experienced a partner like that
It’s a human thing, there’s not really a gender difference. When you can always “get” the most physically attractive person, you start valuing other charecteristics more when looking for a longterm partner.
It starts out looking for a physically attractive person who also has those other qualities, but as you value those more, you relax the other standards without even knowing you’re doing it.
That makes sense. I figured on height I just couldn’t really ever be selective, I’m around the average height of men in my country, and tall guys seem to favor short women, and short guys usually seem to want women shorter than them, so have just always ended up with guys around my height with a couple of outliers (two legit short guys, two really tall). So as I am used to being around guys my height that is what my mind perceives as the space to find attractive guys.
Really haven’t ever pursued a guy for his looks and don’t think I personally am in the turning heads level of attractive, wasn’t ever mainstream majority attractive anyway, though averagely good looking.
That’s a misunderstanding that everyone keeps assuming. But because it’s so prevalent, people keep making the assumption about others.
If you’re into a short guy, don’t just assume he’s not into you just because you’re taller. He might be into you but assume you’re not into him for the same reason.
Be into whoever you’re into, just don’t press it if they’re not interested.
That kind of circles back to what I said about especially attractive people caring less about looks. They have the confidence to not give a fuck and just shoot their shot without ruling themselves out first.
Most people’s problem is just their own fear of rejection, doesn’t matter what gender.