• zaphod@sopuli.xyz
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    5 hours ago

    Trying to start a relationship by playing games is very much a good place to find red flags.

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      4 hours ago

      It might seem like a game to you but that’s someone’s life.

      Do you have an alternative for how they should determine if a potential partner is a danger? Besides hiring a private detective or rolling the dice by finding out after they’re invested?

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        If you can’t trust a stranger even a little bit then don’t date complete strangers. Limit your dating pool to your circle of friends, friends of friends, people you already know or that your friends vouch for.

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          That is so utterly devoid of empathy that I have nothing left to say to you.