Date pays for their stuff, you pay for your own. Basically, separate tabs.

To be clear, I would have paid if she had asked me to at the time. When the bill came for the food, I asked if she wanted separate or together, but my phrasing made it sound like I wanted to split it and she said that was fine. Whoops.

Don’t worry, she’s making up for lost time. I pay for almost everything when we go out now 😅