• Renorc@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      Threesome? If I wanted to disappoint two people at the same time I’d just have dinner with my parents.

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          24 hours ago

          I didn’t say sex doesn’t happen in real life. I said you watch too much porn.

          The mind of a man who thinks that a random girl tagging along with a potential first date will agree to have a threesome let alone the first date themselves will agree to normal sex is… a young naive mind who believes that everyone is having spontaneous group sex.

          Your mind immediately went to that? Why?

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            20 hours ago

            From my POV

            As someone who had a threesome exactly like this scenario played out.

            You’re the one who is naive.

            Spontaneous group sex happens in real life, all the time. There are many people who do not seek it out. That is valid. There are also people who do seek it out.

            Unfortunately the difference between those two types of people defines the lens through which you define a “naive” person.

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              32 minutes ago

              Hey man just because you got a threesome doesn’t mean its common.

              Spontaneous group happens in real life -> I agree.

              All the time -> I don’t agree

              There are people who seek it out

              But that doesn’t mean they get it “all the time”

              Unfortunately the difference between those two types of people defines the lens through which you define a “naive” person.

              And your lens is too much caliberated to view every encounter as an opportunity even if you don’t know whether the OP is actually into it or not, thus projecting your expectations into the scenario.