• Soulg@ani.social
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    24 hours ago

    Yes he was being a bit rude but it is surprisingly common for women to expect the men to pay for their friends and it is not at all unreasonable for him to put his foot down early and refuse before she even asks.

    Being a little rude to a woman is not misogyny.

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      22 hours ago

      Nowhere in the screenshot does she ever say she expected the guy to pay for her friend.

      He’s getting mad about a made-up situation in his head. How do you actually deal with someone who’s mad about something that hasn’t happened.

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      23 hours ago

      “Its surprisingly common” OK buddy. Also yes, if you have a misogynistic belief about women, and then act on that belief, then it becomes misogynistic. Following a black person around a store isn’t racist; doing so because you think their a thief makes it so.

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        6 hours ago

        It’s cool that you haven’t been online dating lately and all but your ignorance of trends is not my problem.

        Yes that situation would make you racist, but that’s also not even remotely comparable in any way so it’s pointless to bring up. Go touch grass.

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          Your right! I don’t have to, I have a wife and kid. The first of whom I met, you guessed it, online dating almost a decade ago, when this old-ass misogynistic meme was made. I guess that’s the difference between us: You deal with online dating, I actually talk to and love a real woman. Sucks to suck I guess.