What if “boba” is code for bugs?

      • shneancy@lemmy.world
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        soups make me angry sometimes, what am i supposed to do? swallow? chew? there’s so little to chew, and yet i can’t just swallow? >:|

        same goes for yogurt, brain senses thickness, tells me to chew, but there is nothing to chew??? >:|

        and with boba tea, one chew is enough to pop the balls, but one chew doesn’t pop all of them, so 90% of my mouth is liquid and yet i can’t swallow until everything is popped >:|

        basically the only half drink - half foods i respect are stews, because those have enough food to chew normally, and the soup part is basically like a lot of sauce

        … how did my parents miss my neurodivergence i have no idea

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          how did my parents miss my neurodivergence i have no idea

          90% of the time it’s willful ignorance. That or (assuming you’re in the US) not having the means to pay for treatment, so it’s easier to not get a diagnosis in the first place.

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            i am not in the US no, thank god for that, i think my parents just went full “everyone is like that :))))”

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          What do you feel about using mouthwash? (Like the kind that doesn’t hurt and doesn’t have a bad flavor.) You keep it in your mouth without chewing and without swallowing

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            yeah but i go wshnshwshwshwsh with the liquid back and forth in my mouth so it’s fine

            the part that my brain apparently has a problem with is - if for swallowing and not watery -> must chew. so when it’s mostly watery but not exactly i get both “chew” and “just drink it” signals which is >:|