• bacon_pdp@lemmy.world
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    Everyone with more than 1 sexual partner has regrets (bad match, poor decision, etc) and even the people who only have had 1 sexual partner have regrets (wishing that they explored more, found better, etc).

    So there is no winning, only acceptance of who you are, what you choose to do and the refusal to let others to fit us into neat little boxes.

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      3 days ago

      I disagree everyone with more than 1 sex partner has regrets.

      I actually have zero regrets from sleeping with anyone. I regret giving one man my phone number. But I don’t regret any of my casual encounters.

      Happily married now with a family. Still no regrets.

    • erin@piefed.blahaj.zone
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      I have way more than one sexual partner and I don’t have any regrets, not of the choice of partners or the sex. My regrets are from relationships that didn’t pan out.

    • Mossy Feathers (She/Her)@pawb.social
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      Hi, I’ve only had one sexual partner. Very much regretted it after she decided she was too horny to care about consent one night. Wish that wasn’t my only sexual experience, but it is what it is.