God that’s true. I’m mega girly, when I joined lemmy I initially chose a gender neutral name I didn’t particularly like to stay safe. Then I started here so my cover was blown and i went with my true girly self. These are the constant things we have to do online
There are, to my knowledge, two pictures of me on the Internet. Total. Both are at least two decades out of date. I haven’t used my real name in any online context (I started with Fidonet) since the '80s. And while I do leak some information about my whereabouts, good luck finding me in a city that’s bigger than the USA’s top city (and is yet only about #10 in China…).
And why the secrecy?
Well, the time I got a phone call at 2AM from a guy in the USA who was absolutely dead-set on “domming” me in an online RPG game, wanting to take it RL kind of informed me I need to be super-careful about any identifiable information.
The fear of even posting a comment on a womens only thread incase they cyber stalk us and start a tirade of abuse or sexual harassment.
God that’s true. I’m mega girly, when I joined lemmy I initially chose a gender neutral name I didn’t particularly like to stay safe. Then I started here so my cover was blown and i went with my true girly self. These are the constant things we have to do online
There are, to my knowledge, two pictures of me on the Internet. Total. Both are at least two decades out of date. I haven’t used my real name in any online context (I started with Fidonet) since the '80s. And while I do leak some information about my whereabouts, good luck finding me in a city that’s bigger than the USA’s top city (and is yet only about #10 in China…).
And why the secrecy?
Well, the time I got a phone call at 2AM from a guy in the USA who was absolutely dead-set on “domming” me in an online RPG game, wanting to take it RL kind of informed me I need to be super-careful about any identifiable information.
And it is tiring.