• LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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    1 day ago

    God that’s true. I’m mega girly, when I joined lemmy I initially chose a gender neutral name I didn’t particularly like to stay safe. Then I started here so my cover was blown and i went with my true girly self. These are the constant things we have to do online

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      There are, to my knowledge, two pictures of me on the Internet. Total. Both are at least two decades out of date. I haven’t used my real name in any online context (I started with Fidonet) since the '80s. And while I do leak some information about my whereabouts, good luck finding me in a city that’s bigger than the USA’s top city (and is yet only about #10 in China…).

      And why the secrecy?

      Well, the time I got a phone call at 2AM from a guy in the USA who was absolutely dead-set on “domming” me in an online RPG game, wanting to take it RL kind of informed me I need to be super-careful about any identifiable information.