When something great happens in your life how do you celebrate?

Here are a few things I do:

  • buy a bouquet of flowers for my partner
  • go to a nice restaurant
  • bake or cook something special, esp. a sweet treat like cake, cookies, etc.
  • TotallyNotSpez@startrek.website
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    23 hours ago

    Short answer: I drum a lot in my session room.

    But joy? That word is weird to me. I just do music nonstop these days and I hope I don’t happily walk in front of a train. That’s basically it.

    I find a little “joy” whenever I listen to certain music, or I’m playing certain music.

    That’s it. Sorry my response isn’t a lot more happy than you hoped for.

    • foxglove (she/her)@lazysoci.alOPMEnglish
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      23 hours ago

      lol, I borderline worry I shouldn’t talk to you because I think we have some similar afflictions and perspectives, and usually I steer things right into “yeah, why even be alive” territory … that’s not gone so well with some other folks so I try to be more ethical and aware about that potential now.

      so yeaah, didn’t expect happy - but I might have been trying to steer myself away from the dark places I typically would have gone, and it seems you got what I meant - the things that keep you alive. 😅

      Music can be great, I taught myself the electric bass a couple years ago - that can be fun 😁