toxic masculinity, tons of people aware of the bad things but most people think its taboo for men to think about their social reformation.
Some of my more well versed lady friends basically describe it like “the women can’t do all the social reformation, men gotta do their part too”
Would be nice to make this thread into a list of resources, like groups, YouTube channels, websites, books, whatever.
It would be very helpful to define these things for people too I think, I don’t think there is a name for men’s social revolution yet, or at least one that is well known.
That works for me, but some people really like the construct of gender. Transpeople just being the most visible case.
If you want to get really into sports and car mechanics, or really into makeup and pastels that’s fine. Just don’t grow the corresponding bad emotional self-care or inauthentic relationships.