Not meaning to imply anything to OP’s abilities, but part of the effectiveness of any communication is the delivery. Some people don’t get satire or other implied meanings even in person. Text is harder to do unless the reader is familiar with references or is in the same “mode” of humor at the time. Sometimes to make a joke or twist work online means you have to put a bit more background or setup than you would in other settings. I’ve done the same, where I just type out a phrase or quote or line as I would IRL, and then realize that it’s not that funny without a bit of context added to help it.

Note an example is the very first part I added so OP didn’t think I was saying they were bad at satire. In real conversation I might not have to say that because it’s implied we’re talking about generalities and not them. Or adding /s to a joke that could be taken serious, or other emotes to create a setting for the punchline.

I think (and this is just my opinion based on years of seeing online discussions) that people are quick to type in their thoughts and hit send without reading over and editing things for clarify. That leads to misunderstandings which fuels the typical arguments we find all because of missing nuances. Hell, I’ve even read over things, submitted a post, and then gone right back to edit because I saw something else needed.