

I don’t know if it’s so much fear of commitment than it is just trying different people and everyone is allowed to do that whether you like it or not. Sorry, that’s just the dating world in practice. People only have one life to live and they will take all of the time of it, to find someone or not, whether it means having to go through multiple people.
So I find it a bit misleading that you use the idea that it is all about being afraid.
Also, your ex did you a favor and was at least honest. That’s far more mature than anyone who simply just won’t give you that clarification. What it meant is that you weren’t exactly 100% up to par with what she expected or who she looked for. You were probably a modest percentage to warrant being liked.






I’m afraid that just by glossing the few posts on this instance, it already has.
People are stooping lows for the sake of seemingly being unpopular. That’s exactly what plagued every single unpopular subreddit. I understand nobody is going to be the first or last to state unpopular opinions, but you don’t need to come off as borderline baiting and gas-lighting to do so.