• HamnavoePer@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    It’s concerning just how many people can’t be bothered to spend 5 minutes to pick an instance… Keeps it nicer for us though

    • Nepenthe@kbin.social
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      1 year ago

      I don’t really think it’s fair to pretend that, before two weeks ago, anyone under god had any idea what an instance was unless they were already heavily tech-oriented.

      It took me hours of trying to read through not-my-kind-of-jargon to understand what the hell I was looking at and what kind of consequences that unexplained choice would have, and it really seems like a good number of users that initially struggled forget the learning curve extremely quickly the moment they’re over it.

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        It took me hours of trying to read through not-my-kind-of-jargon to understand

        I started off going down that road of trying to understand it, but my laziness and impatience got in the way and said “just start using it and you’ll work it out.” And that’s exactly what happened for me. In a way, the explanations made it all sound much more confusing than it really is. Sometimes you just gotta take a deep breath and dive in.

        • valek879@lemmy.world
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          It was a case of: Lemmy.ml isn’t accepting new users atm BeeHaw requires me to tell them why I’m a good user So does this other instance… Why do I have to justify myself!? Hey, Lemmy.world let’s me just sign up! Perfect!

          And that was how I chose an instance. Thank you for joining story got with Valek

        • MsPenguinette@lemmy.world
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          1 year ago

          Decision paralysis is real even for stupid things. Like, “what are the implications if I pick the wrong instance?” Was something that made me put off finishing signing up for mastodon and I’m not embarrassed to admit it. Acting like it’s trivial isn’t helpful to anyone even if it was trivial or you

          • marx2k@lemmy.world
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            1 year ago

            Same here. I had no idea what picking an insurance meant in terms of the amount of people, communities, level of engagement, etc.

            I could have picked one of the more toxic communities that have been defederated and my experience of lemmy would have been much worse

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            1 year ago

            Yeah decision paralysis definitely delayed my joining any ActivityPub based sites, but really most of what it affects is stuff that wont matter until you’ve spent enough time on the platform to understand the difference to begin with

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      1 year ago

      I’ve been explaining it like email. There’s no email webpage you go to to create an account. It’s just a protocall a bunch of people have agreed to use, so you go to one of them and you create an address. I also think your username in the fediverse should be called an address too, but I don’t think that’ll catch on. It makes it a lot easier to explain, because everyone can use email, even the most tech illiterate people.

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        I’ve been explaining it like email

        Maybe I’m setting the bar too low but a lot of people have no clue if their emailing, texting or messaging. They just know that their phone pings and they can either reply or not. I learned this when I worked support for a smartphone manufacturer