• Dabundis@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    I feel where you’re coming from, and on the other side of that I think labels can do a lot of good. There’s a lot of relief and comfort that comes when someone who might otherwise have thought themself broken discovering that there are more out there like them. Finding a label that resonates can get them there. I’m speaking from firsthand experience.

    • Oka@lemmy.ml
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      9 months ago

      Like you’re saying, it’s not that we’re labeling ourselves, but that we’re spreading awareness on multiple levels: LGBTQIA+ folks are sprinkled in our population. If someone goes their life without knowing any, or seeing any, they might feel alone and outcast.

      I’m an Asexual male and I represent in my day to day with just a themed baseball hat.

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        9 months ago

        I identify as a hot mess and represent by flirting with almost anyone to bolster what’s left of my broken fragile ego.

    • samus12345@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      Labels can be useful for quickly explaining an aspect about yourself. It’s what words are for! It’s when people are all judgy about it that problems arise.