make sure you ask your trans/non binary friends what they do and don’t like to be called 😊 it can mean a lot, if your unaware

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    2 years ago

    My dude, dude is used as a gender neutral term

    This complaint doesn’t even makes sense because you would always be using it as a noun, not a pronoun

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      Dude can definitely be gendered. If I said I saw a couple dudes walking down the street, would you not think I meant two men

      That said, dude as an exclamation, imo, is ungendered. It’s almost like saying woah for me.

      If someone really got offended by that from me, I would probably just not talk to them anymore.

      But I think the OP is talking about when someone says something like sup dude.

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      This complaint doesn’t even makes sense because you would always be using it as a noun, not a pronoun

      Girl, are you sure?