One of those is not like the others…

Damn design work.

The only thing I’m commenting on is the “AITA”:

If anything then only for asking that question - don’t be mean to yourself like that.

Queen is, for me, definitely positive, where dude is neutral.

So, I throw “gal” in the ring - I’d be cool being called gal as a binding word.

I think I’m winning: Pokebowl