Research says involuntary celibate men make “fundamental errors” about what women want in a partner.

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    9 months ago

    Your recognition of incels empowers them which warrants suspicion.

    Sure bud. Recognizing problems is bad, and ignoring them is how we fix them. Huge brain take. If you really need find a group to feel superior to, you do you, but I suggest therapy and a better world view as a healthy alternative.

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      9 months ago

      it’s on them to fix themselves. not society. I’m alone, divorced, but I still don’t blame women or society. that’s the incel’s problem: lack of personal accountability, entitlement to a woman, society blaming.

      it takes two to make a relationship, and I’m tired of my fellow man being offended at having to work at having a relationship

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        9 months ago

        I’m alone, divorced, but I still don’t blame women or society.

        I’ve got this everybody.

        Ahem.

        Clap

        There you go. Your one, single congratulations.

        Can you get out of the way now? Give psychologists the space to do their god damn job?

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      9 months ago

      Incels aren’t a problem for regular people. They only really exist in social media which is, obviously, not real life and cannot hurt you. Unless, you want them to? Did a troll hurt your feelings? Did he call you a cunt on Tinder? Did they call you “bud” in a sassy reply? You gave them power by being so fragile and now you want to give them more recognition. 80% of incels will grow out of it. This article, and you, are validating Jordan Peterson. Congratulations, you’re an incel ally.