• ObjectivityIncarnate@lemmy.world
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    4 hours ago

    Neither sex prefers condoms to no condoms. No pair of sexual partners ever utilize them unless they have a good reason to (and even with a good reason, most people don’t, lol).

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      3 hours ago

      Neither sex prefers condoms to no condoms.

      I can’t speak for everyone in my gender, but I’ve rarely found an issue with them. Desensitizes the man so he lasts longer, comes pre-lubricated so that’s one less thing to worry about, and neatly addresses the post-sex mess. There’s even a little fun foreplay right before the main event, if you’re feeling kinky.

      No pair of sexual partners ever utilize them unless they have a good reason to (and even with a good reason, most people don’t, lol).

      Especially early in a relationship, they were always bog standard for me. Rarely met a partner who didn’t feel the same way. Admittedly, the AIDS epidemic was in my rear view mirror growing up, so maybe I’m just more paranoid about unprotected sex than the Zoomers.