What the fuck is this. Is this a threat?
Seriously, does ICE just shows up and is my entire family gonna bandwagon and blame me for it?
Like sure, whatever, go call them mom, they’ll shoot all of us.
What the fuck is this. Is this a threat?
Seriously, does ICE just shows up and is my entire family gonna bandwagon and blame me for it?
Like sure, whatever, go call them mom, they’ll shoot all of us.
She’s the parent and understands the stakes of yelling, yet still leaves it up to someone else to keep things safe. That is messed up
I mean my maternal grandmother has been living with us for the past… like 9 years or so?
I know she scolded at me a lot like literally the moment she arrived in the US, so I’m assuming she also did that raising my mother… so yea… generational trauma… nobody ever knew how to parents and this shitty gene just gets passed down lol
It’s beyond that though. People so out of control that they refuse to reign themselves in even when it can cause danger to themselves and others.
You have a choice in life. Just don’t be like that. You probably don’t have many healthy examples of how to deal with frustration and anger. Seek out more rational examples of responses to those events so you can begin to learn how you should be.
It takes practice to acknowledge your initial,automatic ,response and not immediately react. It’s going to take years and you won’t always get it right, but you have to keep at it and be purposeful.
That’s one of the reasons I got a tubal litigation. There’s more than therapy as an option to stop intergenerational trauma in its tracks 😂
Sounds dirty.