I know this is a joke but the correct answer is to get the fuck out. Out of the situation, out of the house, and out of the relationship. Immediately. Physical abuse is not excusable and should never be accepted.
Then you take what you learned and you still walk away and you find someone who will do it safely. Or you stay in the relationship, flash forward several years, and wonder why you’re miserable
Just because you like it in consensual play doesn’t mean you’ll like it in abusive situations. And even if you do find yourself enjoying the abuse, it’s still better to walk away. Abusers have a way of making you into someone you hate and they often escalate things. Then therapy might help you unpack it, because you really don’t want to find yourself preferring an abusive partner
I know this is a joke but the correct answer is to get the fuck out. Out of the situation, out of the house, and out of the relationship. Immediately. Physical abuse is not excusable and should never be accepted.
what if you like it tho 🥺
Even if you like it, if you didn’t give prior consent you need to leave.
but what if i like it anyway tho 🥺
then you need therapy
Then you take what you learned and you still walk away and you find someone who will do it safely. Or you stay in the relationship, flash forward several years, and wonder why you’re miserable
Just because you like it in consensual play doesn’t mean you’ll like it in abusive situations. And even if you do find yourself enjoying the abuse, it’s still better to walk away. Abusers have a way of making you into someone you hate and they often escalate things. Then therapy might help you unpack it, because you really don’t want to find yourself preferring an abusive partner