There is this beautiful woman at my local Walmart who recognises me; she always smiles and waves at me. She usually works at the service desk and, from across the room, said, “How are you doing?” Now I’m aware retail workers are nice to customers because they have to be, but I still decided to shoot my shot. While no one was at the service area, she said, “Do you need help with something?” I was nervous and asked her name. She told me. I asked her how her Christmas was, and she said, “Good.” It was clear she didn’t want to have a conversation, so I just said, “I just wanted to say hi,” and left.
I’m aware of body language, and I take rejection well, so I just left.
But yeah, I’ve never asked out or dated a retail worker. I’m aware that just because someone is friendly with you doesn’t mean they like you, but I still wanted to shoot my shot.
Note to self: never ask out or date a retail worker.
Asking someone out is about being aware of the situation and taking in social cues.
Retail workers are required to be nice to you. But some may go above and beyond. If they do, they may be hitting on you. (E.g. you ask for a small coffee and they give you a large. Or don’t charge you for an extra whatever.)
The key is making sure you aren’t a creep. Make sure the interaction is welcome and you aren’t making their job harder.
It sounds like you read the room and opted to not shoot your shot. That’s the way.