Right?
“hm, i’m very upset at the fact that i can’t get into a relationship with the opposite gender, surely the solution to this is vocally hating that opposite gender and being as toxic and unpleasant as i can manage”
Like i get being fundamentally unhappy and angry, but surely the natural reaction to that is escaping into fantasy? Spend your days fantasizing about someone from the opposite gender actively loving the things others dislike, or that you’ll eventually turn out to secretly be a turboawesome vampire or whatever.
At what point does a person decide that hating the people they want to get into bed with makes sense??
Right?
“hm, i’m very upset at the fact that i can’t get into a relationship with the opposite gender, surely the solution to this is vocally hating that opposite gender and being as toxic and unpleasant as i can manage”
Like i get being fundamentally unhappy and angry, but surely the natural reaction to that is escaping into fantasy? Spend your days fantasizing about someone from the opposite gender actively loving the things others dislike, or that you’ll eventually turn out to secretly be a turboawesome vampire or whatever.
At what point does a person decide that hating the people they want to get into bed with makes sense??