Hey, sounds exactly like my mom! I have no idea where this line of thinking comes that all queer people are that way because they were sexually assaulted at some point, but I’ve known multiple people in the older generation who think that for some reason.

She also insists that I’m “just a gay man, because I know lots of effeminate gay guys”, even though I’ve explained to her multiple times that’s not how it works and I’m primarily attracted to women. It’s very tiring to deal with her at times…