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Cake day: November 15th, 2024

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  • As someone in that group, there’s a huge difference between doing well on paper and actually doing well. My peers and I are worried about losing our jobs, and there’s a likelihood we won’t be seeing a significant portion of our paychecks due to the economic hits from the tariffs. Sure, my net worth is technically higher since last year, but that doesn’t mean much when you’re 30 years from retirement. I can’t just infinite money glitch my 401k by taking out loans like billionaires can with their net worth.

    I realize that I’m a lot better off than most, but I only bring this up to point out that even people who aren’t poor are also feeling plenty of negative economic pressure as well.







  • It’s so real, especially early in transition. I remember chatting with a coworker via Teams about cars, and he was being really weird about trying to flex his car, getting really upset I wasn’t fawning over it, and being extremely dismissive of basically every opinion I had. I kept thinking to myself “wtf is this guy’s problem?” because I had literally never interacted with a person so condescending when talking to me about cars.

    Mind you, I’m an automotive engineer, working for an automotive company, who has been racing since before I got my license. I would say I’m decently knowledgeable about cars.

    It wasn’t until he said “There goes silly hovercat with her silly opinions again” that I realized “Oh shit, he’s talking to me like that because I’m a woman”. It was incredibly affirming, but definitely some mixed feelings about the whole thing.









  • The reality is that you have a LOT of people who are ignorant, willfully or otherwise, of the atrocities that are going on. It’s easy to hate on them, but also recognizing that the majority of people just aren’t that curious or aware of anything outside their little bubble.

    They live in an area where Fox is on every TV in every public place talking about how amazing Dear Leader is and think “Well it’s ‘the news’ so I’m staying well informed”, get a little poll on their phone asking if they approve of Trump, and go on with their day.

    I don’t say this to justify any of what’s going on, it’s monstrous and disgusting and vile, but it’s also to give at least some hope that your average person isn’t that vile and has merely been lied to their whole lives.

    I can’t tell you how much I feared coming out as trans to people and the backlash I’d receive. Even my backwoods cousins Oklahoma who made a post about “voting for Trump to keep trans pedos out of their kids’ bathrooms” right after the election were shockingly accepting and all that rhetoric went away the moment a trans person wasn’t some abstract concept being demonized by Fox/Newsmax/Reichbart, and was an actual person they knew.

    The amount of disinformation out there is horrifying, and so it’s really not surprising that there are still people who support him, simply because they truly have no idea what’s actually going on in the world.