So, yeah, my uncle’s kind of an ass. I am bigender or genderfluid or something and I use masculine and feminine pronouns, names, and genders interchangeably. However, I tried to come out to my uncle and he said I would always be a “female”, nothing could change it, and being trans was just a load of horseshit.


By saying you will always be female, he’s distinguishing between biology and culture.
By explicitly stating “female” and not “woman”, he’s accidentally validated you.